Have you ever wondered why, in a world filled with people demanding their rights, true fulfillment can still feel out of reach? Picture this: you’re scrolling through social media, and almost every post revolves around “what I deserve” or “what I should get.” Yet, despite the clamor for entitlements, so many of us still crave deeper meaning, happiness, and belonging. What if we’re looking at it all backwards?
Modern culture encourages us to focus on our rights—human rights, civil rights, even the right to be happy! But when we look to classic Jewish wisdom, a different focus emerges: responsibility and obligation. Fascinatingly, there’s no word for “rights” in the Torah or in the classic sources of Jewish law. Instead, we speak of duties. At Mount Sinai, we received the Ten Commandments—not a Bill of Rights!
This isn’t just philosophy. Take a look at Jewish law’s approach to charity. The Torah commands the wealthy to support the poor, but doesn’t usually phrase it as a right for the poor to demand. Social and economic justice is achieved not by insisting on what we’re owed, but by inspiring responsibility.
This focus on duty isn’t only a “Jewish thing.” Secular psychology supports it: many studies reveal that people who see their lives as meaningful—because they contribute and take responsibility—are more resilient, happier, and live with a sense of purpose. Dr. Adam Grant’s national surveys found meaningfulness to be the greatest workplace value, and Viktor Frankl, the famed psychotherapist and Holocaust survivor, taught that a sense of responsibility is key to survival and fulfillment.
Simply put, when you stop asking, “What do I get?” and start asking, “What can I give?”—you unlock the secret to real happiness and motivation. Even in tough times, taking action helps us rise above helplessness.
Think back to the people who truly inspire you. They’re usually not the ones who talked about what they were owed—they’re the ones who stepped up, took charge, and made a difference. Jewish tradition puts the spotlight on these heroes:
So how do we shift our perspective and embrace a “responsibility mindset”? Here are three simple, powerful steps you can try today:
Together, these steps can help you experience the satisfaction and joy that comes from knowing you matter and make a difference.
What would our world look like if everyone made this shift? Imagine a society where people ask, “How can I help?” instead of “What’s in it for me?” That’s the challenge Jewish wisdom puts before us—and the adventure that modern psychology confirms leads to our best, happiest selves.
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