Live to Give: Sparking a Chesed Revolution in Your Life

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to get caught up in the “me, myself, and I” world? Maybe you’ve been scrolling through social media, noticing how everyone’s out there trying to collect likes and followers, always focused on their own highlight reels. But deep down, have you ever wondered – is there more to life than racking up numbers on a screen? What would it look like to flip the script and focus not on what we can get, but what we can give?

It turns out, psychology agrees with ancient Jewish wisdom on this point. Studies show that people who make a habit of giving to others—whether it’s through volunteering, acts of kindness, or simply being present—are happier, healthier, and feel a greater sense of purpose. Judaism takes this one step further: the Torah teaches that the heart of a meaningful life is chesed—acts of loving-kindness. Our forefather Avraham built his life around welcoming and giving to others, setting an example for all of us. As the Talmud teaches, “The world stands on three things: Torah, avodah (service), and chesed” (Pirkei Avot 1:2).

Let’s take a page from the Torah Live crew. Picture Simcha, Yair, and Baruch, three friends trying to outdo each other in a tech contest—until they realize that the real contest is about living a life of giving. Instead of asking “How do I get ahead?” their whole perspective shifts to “How can I help someone else today?” Suddenly, everyday life—helping with groceries, showing kindness to a neighbor, being the one who offers a smile—becomes a stage for a quiet revolution.

Ready to join the chesed revolution? Here are some simple, real-life ways to get started:

• Adopt a Giving Mindset: Each time you meet someone—or even before you go to school or work—ask yourself, “What can I do for this person?” Try making this question a mental habit.
• Start Small, Think Big: You don’t need grand gestures. Help a sibling, greet a classmate, offer to bring in the mail for a neighbor. Small acts, repeated often, spark bigger changes.
• Make It a Game: Challenge yourself or your family—how many “chesed points” can you rack up in a day? (Bonus: Share your ideas and hacks in the Torah Live Chesed Hack area!)
• Reflect and Share: Notice how you feel after you help. Try journaling or talking with a friend about the difference it makes.

The beauty of living to give is that every act, no matter how modest, creates ripples—the kind that can transform your home, your friendships, and maybe even your community. When you look for opportunities to give, you start noticing kindness all around you.

Imagine if every one of us chose to “live to give,” just a little more each day. The world would look—and feel—very different. Why not be the spark for a chesed revolution where you live? If you’re looking for more inspiration (and a way to keep the momentum going), check out Torah Live’s awesome videos, games, and challenges. They’re packed with stories and practical tools for living a life full of purpose, kindness, and fun.

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