Unlocking Emuna: How Everyday Struggles Build Unshakable Faith

Unlocking Emuna: How Everyday Struggles Build Unshakable Faith

by Sharon Bezalel on Jul 18, 2025
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Unlocking Emuna: How Everyday Struggles Build Unshakable Faith

Ever felt like life was a never-ending game of whack-a-mole? Just when you manage one problem, up pops another! Why does it always feel like the challenges keep coming?

Let's pause for a moment. What if the purpose of all those bumps in the road isn't to wear us down—but to build us up?

Modern Psychology Meets Ancient Jewish Wisdom

Leading psychologists often talk about 'resilience' as the single most important factor for overcoming adversity. Research shows that children and adults who learn to find meaning in their challenges develop stronger character and greater emotional well-being. Sound familiar?

Jewish tradition has taught this for millennia. The Torah encourages us to approach life with emunah (faith)—not just as a belief, but as a practical toolkit to navigate life's twists and turns. As it says in Devarim 18:13, "You shall be wholehearted with Hashem your God." To live with emunah means not just believing in Hashem, but actively trusting that every moment, even the hard ones, are for our growth.

When Bumps Become Building Blocks: Relatable Stories

Take the story of Rabbi Akiva, who only learned to read the Hebrew alphabet at age 40. One day, sitting by a river, he watched water drip on a rock until it made a hole. If water could carve through stone, he thought, then surely consistent effort could break through his own limitations. Instead of seeing setbacks as roadblocks, Rabbi Akiva viewed them as invitations to keep going, with faith that Hashem was supporting every step.

Or consider those moments when someone else gets the reward you hoped for, or when you face disappointment after giving your best. Jewish wisdom teaches: "If it was meant for you, it would have been yours." Emunah isn't passive; it's the active choice to trust that challenges are tailor-made for you to become who you’re meant to be.

Action Steps: Turning Faith Into Your Daily Superpower

  • Pause and Affirm: When something doesn't go your way, take a breath and say: "Hashem knows what He's doing. This is meant for my growth."
  • Ask: How Can This Bring Me Closer? In the middle of a challenge, jot down one way this experience could help you grow in patience, empathy, or gratitude.
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Keep a mini 'Emunah Journal' and write down a moment each day when things worked out in a way you didn't expect—or learned something from a tough situation.
  • Share Your Challenges: Don't go it alone! Jewish tradition is built on community. Discuss your struggles with a mentor, friend, or family member, and look for the sparks of faith in their stories too.

From Struggle to Strength: Bringing It All Together

Every challenge is a training ground for greater faith. Like building a muscle, emunah grows when we lean into life's struggles and see them as Hashem's way of making us stronger. The next time something doesn't go your way, remember Rabbi Akiva watching those drops of water: steady effort and persistent faith can shape even the hardest stone.

Ultimately, you get to choose: will life's challenges make you bitter or better?

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