Why Did Hashem Choose Us? Part 2: Discovering the Greatest Pleasure in Life

Let’s take a journey together—a journey into understanding why Hashem chose us, and what the greatest pleasure in life really is. Ready to dig a little deeper?

Happiness: More Than Candy and Helicopters

Imagine being a kid again, convinced that the next toy would change everything. Or think about adults who dream of fancy cars, exotic trips, or tech gadgets. Research shows that while new possessions can give us a temporary thrill, true happiness comes from something much deeper—feeling connected, valued, and purposeful. Psychologists refer to this as intrinsic motivation: the joy that comes from within, not from outside rewards.

Jewish wisdom teaches us this too. In Shema, we’re told to love Hashem with “all your heart, all your soul, and all your might.” This isn’t just poetic language; it’s the secret to the most powerful kind of happiness. Connecting with Hashem—with all that’s in our hearts, our passions, and even our physical efforts—is greater than love, money, or even making the world a better place. It’s a pleasure that’s endlessly renewing.

An Everyday Example

Think of a parent, tired after a long day, who still finds energy to tuck a child in with a story or a song. That sense of connection—of being part of something bigger than ourselves—fills us in ways nothing material can. Or think about giving to someone else, not because you have to, but because you want to. That deep-down glow you feel? That’s the greatest happiness there is.

The Science and the Soul

Secular studies are catching up to what the Torah has always taught. Harvard’s longest happiness study found that strong relationships—not career achievements or wealth—lead to the greatest fulfillment. And Jewish teachings remind us that our relationship with Hashem is the most profound of all.

Hashem didn’t choose us for our achievements, wealth, or status. He chose us because He wanted to give us the gift of closeness—a relationship that grows the more we nurture it.

Practical Steps to Treasure the Relationship

• Start your day with gratitude: Before grabbing your phone or rushing to your to-do list, pause and thank Hashem for one thing. This simple act recharges your sense of connection.
• Find moments of presence: During meals, prayers, or quiet times, focus on the present and imagine Hashem’s presence with you. Even 30 seconds can shift your mindset.
• Acts of kindness: Go out of your way for someone else just because. This is a double win—science shows it boosts your mood, and Jewish wisdom calls it a mitzvah.
• Reflect daily: At night, ask: “When did I feel closest to Hashem today?” Journaling even a line or two helps you notice growth over time.

From Theoretical to Transformational

Every small step you take in nurturing your relationship with Hashem brings you an infinite, ever-growing joy that can’t be found anywhere else. It’s a journey worth embarking on—no matter where you start. With each step, everything you do and experience becomes uplifted and meaningful.

Your Next Step

What if your next best moment is just around the corner? Try today’s practical steps, and see for yourself how much lighter, richer, and happier life can feel when you’re tuned in to something higher.

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